How To Cope With the Sudden News of Your Parents’ Divorce As an Adult
In the first week of 2021, my mother sent me a text at 11 p.m. that read, “Your father and I are going to get a divorce. I’m moving out in March.” Within seconds, my entire world flipped upside down. After over 25 years together—longer than my entire life—my parents were breaking up, and I learned about it from a text message before I went to sleep. I was beside myself. I knew my parents had their issues, but that didn’t make processing this news any easier for me. Even as an adult in her twenties who recognizes that her parents are fallible human beings, news of parents divorcing can be traumatic, to say the least. Change is always hard, and this specific change has the power to alter everything you once knew about your family dynamic. That said, after taking some time to introspect and consult with mental health professionals, I’ve learned several coping skills for dealing with news of parents’ divorce as an adult. Because, no, it’s not easy even if you’re all grown up. 4 expert t...
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